i personally think you did what was completely appropriate in that situation. and yaay 3 doors down!
Haha thank you. And actually not so much yay. Not that big a fan lol. I kinda lump them in ‘generic alternative’. I pretty much only went because of the setup and it was frickin’ cold. I still enjoyed myself enough though.
Let me start this off by saying I’m 23 and she’s 19. I’ll turn 24 before she even turns 20. At this point in my life as long as a girl is over 18 and in college I guess that’s not an issue. Just wanted to point it out. She actually seems to be very mature for the girls her age I’ve met.
Anyways, we all went to the ‘3 Doors Down’ concert last night. It was actually a pretty chilly night here in Corpus last night and none of use were really prepared for it. This is my first time meeting this girl. We talk, nothing seems to be wrong or anything. Well, she had a blanket we were sitting on and I knew she was cold. I didn’t mind sitting straight on the ground and letting her use her blanket. Here, according to my friends is where I made a ‘mistake’. Apparently I’m supposed to have put my arm around her to keep her warm because that’s the ‘chivalrous’ thing to do and Texas girls are all about that chivalry.
Here I am sitting here thinking. I tried to be nice and tried to put boundaries. I saw my behavior as being respectful as I have only just met this girl, I don’t know her that well, she doesn’t know me that well and well I don’t think either of us were really truly clicking. I tend to not get to touchy really quickly due to this. This whole blind date thing is new territory for me along with me being like the most shy person I know. Really, I don’t know what she’s thinking in all this. Nor do I really know what I’m thinking about all this. I’m just sitting here shrugging and not bent out of shape or anything. I foresee us crossing paths quite often now though as her best friend is now dating pretty much my best friend…
I know I’ve been wanting someone, but I’m not as desperate as my friends are to see me with someone.
And by few I mean 10. The only problem is the number has changed but no notifications or new followers… what’d going on here?